So, well, my Inner Ruki was stomping his wee feet and in the course of two weeks I turned from purple-black to a peachy blond. I'm still working daily on our new flat, but tings are turning out damn fine!
Most proud I'm of how the ferrets are behaving. Hardly any issues with misplaced poops, maybe one on the mat in front of their litter box in the morning, but nothing more. They are clean, they are a lot calmer and level headed. They have so much space now to run around and chase each other and play and all that without slipping on tiles, plus the Pegnitz river is just outside and down some stairs where they can dig through dirt and sprint along the baking track that carved a nice ferret sized road into the meadows. They love it here. We love it here. Dustin works 8h a day, not 10-13h that he used to for which he didn't get any compensation or acknowledgement, not even a 'thank you', more likely a 'well, that your problem'. His father is still trying to dick him over from afar, but he can't yell at him and humiliate him on a daily basis anymore. Now he has nice colleagues, people who talk to him without condemning him, a boss who cares and regular times of work, no more getting up at 2AM and getting home at 3PM. Dustin said he never thought he'd find fulfillment in a big city like Nürnberg, but he did, he loves it, he feels at home and at ease.
To make things perfect all we need now is for me to find a job as well.
Until then I spent most of my time sorting through stuff, building shelves, yaddayadda and listening to Draco/Harry podfics which I just got into. I do have to admit... this is one of my absolute favorite pairings now, alongside Ironfrost (Tony Stark/Loki) and Johnlock (John/Sherlock).